Can someone help me i'm super confused by the towing capacity so many different types of numbers. I have a 2012 jeep grand cherokee laredo and it says the towing capacity is 5000 lbs i was going to install a hitch which has a tongue weight 500 lbs but someone said that the cargo like my and the passenger in the vehicle is a different weight rating and doesn't count towards the towing capacity can someone tell me the what type of travel trailer I can tow e.g. dry trailer weight & tongue weight and the difference between weight distribution type hitch. Yeah i'm asking for a lot I know I'm sorry. I'll attach pictures of the numbers on my suv. You are amazing!